What we focus on can shape what we notice. In this episode of Joy Reveals, Joy Packard talks about our natural tendency to look for what’s wrong—and how intentionally looking for what’s good can change the way we experience everyday life. Gratitude doesn’t erase pain, disappointment, or difficult seasons. Instead, it helps us notice the kindness, beauty, laughter, and small moments of joy that can exist alongside them. Joy shares personal reflections, including lessons from a difficult year and an empty nest, and offers a simple practice: at the end of each day, write down three good things you might otherwise have missed.